Even when you're crazy about someone, it can often be hard to know if he or she is "right" for you. How do you know you won't feel differently in a year? Ten years? A lifetime? Deciding if you can commit to someone is a deeply personal determination, and everyone has different criteria. As in any verdict, you have to start by assessing the evidence. With that in mind, YourTango has come up with 15 signs that you're dating a soul mate. You don't have to check off all of these points to be sure about someone-but if you can say yes to several, you've found someone very special.
1. You tell him things you don't tell anyone else. We don't mean blurting something out after you've had too much merlot, but the desire to tell him intimate details about your life means you trust him-a major component of successful long-term love.
2. You let her see you in moments of weakness. It's easy to be happy with someone when you're feeling good about life. But what about when you're not doing so well? Do you want to see her when you've been denied a raise, or your cat died or you had a plain old bad day? She should be a comfort during tough times, not a burden.
3. You respect him. You don't want to change the essence of who he is. There may be stuff that irritates you in everyday life-he insists on wearing his favorites, holey T-shirt, he eats sugar cereal for dinner, he still watches Saturday morning cartoons-but you like him, plain and simple.
4. You want him to meet your parents. You feel proud of him and you want to show him off-as opposed to feeling like you have to make excuses for him.
5. You can imagine a future together. You don't have to practice writing your first name with his last name, but do you periodically let your mind wander to picture a life together? Is it amazing?
6. You're not afraid to disagree with him. You know that even if you fight, he'll listen to you and won't brush you off. He takes you seriously, even when he thinks you're wrong.
7. You want to work out your major differences. If you do have crucial differences that will impact your future together-different opinions about religion, money or something else-you want to work them out with him, and you believe you can come to a conclusion that will satisfy both of you.
8. You laugh together. Laughter is one of life's simplest pleasures-you should definitely be able to crack each other up.
9. You're incredibly, utterly, surprisingly attracted to her. Physical chemistry is an undeniably important ingredient in a healthy relationship. And if she's not a classic beauty or your usual "type"? Even more reason to think she's the one.
10. It's OK to be quiet around her. You don't feel like you have to fill the space between you with chatter or other interaction. Instead, you feel an easy comfort.
11. You feel like yourself around him. You don't feel like you have to edit your thoughts; you're not self-conscious or anxious.
12. You need him the right amount. You long for him-but not too much. Some neediness is good but too much breeds discontent.
13. You don't feel too jealous. You're comfortable with him going out with his friends-even female friends. You let each other have your own lives and hobbies.
14. You feel like she makes you a better person. She makes you feel smart, funny, attractive, creative-like the best version of yourself. You feel like she brings out and complements the best parts of you.
15. She just gets you. Sometimes it's that easy. You feel like she understands some essential part of you that you can't explain or articulate. It's a warm, comfortable feeling-and one you should have with the person you marry.
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
Before and After
Christmas is over, another year has passed us by.
One door closes, another door opens. Taking a step into a brand new years is just like clenching your hands on the door knob. As you turn and twist to open it, there is a doubt of uncertainty in what lies behind the door. And yet it is a must for us to find out. As for the door we closed, it's like securing our memories in a safe place that we shall never forget.
I could use a lot of words to summarize the past year, for every moment I've had. Memorable, remarkable, unforgettable, significant, those would all be sufficient to describe what 2011 was like. And also heartbreaking, that might also be a good one.
The year when friends became strangers and strangers became friends. Where lovers became haters and haters became lovers. The year where mistakes were made and lessons were learnt. Where stories were shared and memories were created. Where people hit rock bottom and where people raised back up. To 2011, the drama, the fights, the memories, the laughs, the tears and the craziness.
I'm glad to know with a sense of feeling sure and secured that i will still be keeping the people who meant so much more to me. Without them life can only be so simple. These people, each of them, fills up a certain part, they played a different role in every chapter of my life. Shaping and forming the story into an entire book that I would eventually be reading it throughout the coming years. These people are the reasons... the reason why I step backward and gave myself a deep thought, the reason I ran faster and the reason I woke up to everyday.
As for 2012, I wouldn't want anything to change but that doesn't mean I don't want things to be better. I wish everything can remain the same where everyone and the connection is still around. I'm looking forward to the brand new year. I ponder what's there for me to find out.
One door closes, another door opens. Taking a step into a brand new years is just like clenching your hands on the door knob. As you turn and twist to open it, there is a doubt of uncertainty in what lies behind the door. And yet it is a must for us to find out. As for the door we closed, it's like securing our memories in a safe place that we shall never forget.
I could use a lot of words to summarize the past year, for every moment I've had. Memorable, remarkable, unforgettable, significant, those would all be sufficient to describe what 2011 was like. And also heartbreaking, that might also be a good one.
The year when friends became strangers and strangers became friends. Where lovers became haters and haters became lovers. The year where mistakes were made and lessons were learnt. Where stories were shared and memories were created. Where people hit rock bottom and where people raised back up. To 2011, the drama, the fights, the memories, the laughs, the tears and the craziness.
I'm glad to know with a sense of feeling sure and secured that i will still be keeping the people who meant so much more to me. Without them life can only be so simple. These people, each of them, fills up a certain part, they played a different role in every chapter of my life. Shaping and forming the story into an entire book that I would eventually be reading it throughout the coming years. These people are the reasons... the reason why I step backward and gave myself a deep thought, the reason I ran faster and the reason I woke up to everyday.
As for 2012, I wouldn't want anything to change but that doesn't mean I don't want things to be better. I wish everything can remain the same where everyone and the connection is still around. I'm looking forward to the brand new year. I ponder what's there for me to find out.
Memorable moments of 2011
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Eggcentric
It was a long weekend for me as my Mom and Sis were in the city and after they've gone I have a very important audit waiting for me. Finally, two days of audition for my company to renew it's international license is done. We passed the audit successfully and we will not have to do this again for another 3 years. Such a relief. I guess there's nothing important to accomplish anymore for the year. What should've done has been done and the closure is simple.
I am a big fan of American Breakfast. For people who know me well enough, knows that eggs and bacon dazzles me. When my family was here, I took the chance to bring them so some of my favorite spots in BKK that serve the most authentic American Breakfast.
On the first day we woke up to the sign of approaching winter. It was chilly as Mom open the windows and my Sis was kind of excited because this is what she's longing for. It was a sunny day with a touch of cooling breeze when the wind blows. It came to my mind that it would be great if we go to a location that kind of set the winter moods in. It was a short trip for them and so I choose "Roast Cafe & Bistro" on the first day and "Audrey" the next day for our breakfast during their stay.
Our first stop is Roast. A warm and cozy place with large glass panel. At a glance, most of the patrons are ex-pat and foreign students swinging their morning away with delightful breakfast.
What we had for breakfast is pretty much basic. Nothing special, just food with original taste from where it belongs and invented. On the table were "Roast" Breakfast, Two Eggs Any Style and Classic Egg Benedict.
The next morning we were at Audrey. A restaurant named and inspired by Audrey Hepburn who stars in the Hollywood hit Breakfast at Tiffany's. A cottage like structure located in a quiet lane of the concrete jungle in Thonglor. FYI, Thonglor is also known as the Beverly Hills of BKK where the most diversified sides of BKK presents itself.
What we had on the able were Cream of Ground Beef with Fried Egg on Toast, Omelette stuffed with Ham, Mozzarella Cheese and Mushrooms and the last but not least Salmon Benedict. An all time American favorite.
Besides all the satisfying food and all, we had a really great time. Nonetheless, the small talk we had throughout our day is lagendary. Haha!
I am a big fan of American Breakfast. For people who know me well enough, knows that eggs and bacon dazzles me. When my family was here, I took the chance to bring them so some of my favorite spots in BKK that serve the most authentic American Breakfast.
On the first day we woke up to the sign of approaching winter. It was chilly as Mom open the windows and my Sis was kind of excited because this is what she's longing for. It was a sunny day with a touch of cooling breeze when the wind blows. It came to my mind that it would be great if we go to a location that kind of set the winter moods in. It was a short trip for them and so I choose "Roast Cafe & Bistro" on the first day and "Audrey" the next day for our breakfast during their stay.
Our first stop is Roast. A warm and cozy place with large glass panel. At a glance, most of the patrons are ex-pat and foreign students swinging their morning away with delightful breakfast.
The next morning we were at Audrey. A restaurant named and inspired by Audrey Hepburn who stars in the Hollywood hit Breakfast at Tiffany's. A cottage like structure located in a quiet lane of the concrete jungle in Thonglor. FYI, Thonglor is also known as the Beverly Hills of BKK where the most diversified sides of BKK presents itself.
Audrey's quotes on the wall.
What we had on the able were Cream of Ground Beef with Fried Egg on Toast, Omelette stuffed with Ham, Mozzarella Cheese and Mushrooms and the last but not least Salmon Benedict. An all time American favorite.
Thursday, December 8, 2011
Night Rant
I just switched to Firefox and writing with it is a lot more better than Safari. It's like writing with no boundaries... all wide and clean. I am not sure what kind of curse is running inside me. For the past few weeks there's just failure, failure and failures. Things doesn't flow right based on the rate that I'd prefer. Yeah.. things goes wrong and get halted wayyyy it was scheduled. But I must admit that the turning point is around the corner. Perception are getting clearer, and all the error has started to fall in line for the better change. I hope all can be done flawlessly before the people of the World celebrate their New Year.
I am kinda upset that I'm at the 4th season now because I knew it will end very very soon. God, I just gonna miss Sheldon and his friends! For the past month I watched The Big Bang Theory while having breakfast on my off days and dinner after I got back from work. It was funny and a delightful sitcom to start and to end the day. Just can't stop laughing at their miserable scientific thoughts and how each of them put themselves in for one another. It's a shame that I started so late as the first season was aired back in late 2007. Nonetheless I'm catching up with it quite profusely. Bazzinga!
Time flies, it doesn't matter you're counting by the rate of a year, a month, a day or an hour... Time really flies before our eyes could blink. See? It's late now and I should stop at this very point and tuck myself in. For the one who is 8273 miles away from me right now. I wish her a very good morning and a pleasant day ahead. I hope she is well. ^^
I am kinda upset that I'm at the 4th season now because I knew it will end very very soon. God, I just gonna miss Sheldon and his friends! For the past month I watched The Big Bang Theory while having breakfast on my off days and dinner after I got back from work. It was funny and a delightful sitcom to start and to end the day. Just can't stop laughing at their miserable scientific thoughts and how each of them put themselves in for one another. It's a shame that I started so late as the first season was aired back in late 2007. Nonetheless I'm catching up with it quite profusely. Bazzinga!
Time flies, it doesn't matter you're counting by the rate of a year, a month, a day or an hour... Time really flies before our eyes could blink. See? It's late now and I should stop at this very point and tuck myself in. For the one who is 8273 miles away from me right now. I wish her a very good morning and a pleasant day ahead. I hope she is well. ^^
Monday, November 28, 2011
October Issues
October was really great. A short trip back home was very well worth it. In a few days time I had the chance to see my close relatives who travelled down south from their hometown. We had a great morning and a perfect brunch together. Meeting up with friends was not a problem. I was quite surprised that many of them managed to turnout for a drink on weekday's night despite of having to work the next morning.
It was undeniably one of the best time of the year. All about family, friends and also surprises from the people that revolves around me. For me and Sharon who has known each other for a good amount of time, we haven't had the chance to spend many quality days together given our lifestyles and locations. This trip was a great chance just to relax and spent the day with each other. Certain people bring out your best self. That's who you need to find. A person who brings out the best in you.
All my birthday gifts was collected on this very trip. From morning till night I was surprised with surprises. The most special gift that I've ever received in my life are one of those in the pictures below. You can make a guess. Had a wonderful dinner at my sister's favorite restaurant, the food was alright but the companion matters the most.
It was undeniably one of the best time of the year. All about family, friends and also surprises from the people that revolves around me. For me and Sharon who has known each other for a good amount of time, we haven't had the chance to spend many quality days together given our lifestyles and locations. This trip was a great chance just to relax and spent the day with each other. Certain people bring out your best self. That's who you need to find. A person who brings out the best in you.
All my birthday gifts was collected on this very trip. From morning till night I was surprised with surprises. The most special gift that I've ever received in my life are one of those in the pictures below. You can make a guess. Had a wonderful dinner at my sister's favorite restaurant, the food was alright but the companion matters the most.
You're the apple of my eye are meant for this picture.
Not A Bad Sunday
Woke up fresh today although I had a few episodes of dreams along the way before I opened up my eyes to a slow paced Sunday. As my friends were enjoying themselves in Hua Hin I took the chance to hibernate myself after a long two weeks of midnight conquest. I told myself that today it's just gonna be me and I'll do whatever I feel comfortable with. The traffic was on the free flow side and it was such a bonus to drive around in Bangkok. Went to the city and run some errands before stopping by at a mall to have my lunch.
Grabbed a few titles for the pleasure of entertaining myself at night. Surprisingly they have the reissue of "Breakfast at Tiffany's", and why not give it a try since it is an all time classic that so many songs and movies were inspired by this movie.
In Bangkok you can't go wrong with style and fashion by following what you saw on the streets of this ever-changing city. The vintage iphone case is a big hit. Any vintage prints on the case is selling mad here. I saw some today and they have the prints identical to Hermes scarf. I have no idea why I bought it, I'm not even sure if I'm gonna use it but I do like the prints.
OK look... my wardrobe is just a disaster. I took the privilege of an hour on Sunday to tidy up this mess. Then I ran for 30 minutes at the gym which is quite refreshing and did some weight lifting as well. I put on 3kg, and can you imagine how huge the pork is if you asked for 3kg at the market? Tell this to a girl who just put on a few pounds.
My dinner... I think I will be eating SUBWAY for a month as dinner for the sake of my diet. This beauty only cost 320 calories per serving and 5.0g of fats. This sandwich wraps up my Sunday night on the bed while watching those DVDs that I've bought. Still... Simple is bliss, I'm living up with this quote. :P
Late Lunch
Was supposed to meet up my friends for lunch at Paragon on a warm Sunday but I woke up too late to join them. They were done with lunch and started off with their shopping spree around the Siam Square area. The traffic to city was light and it wasn't a problem looking for a parking space at Paragon on Sunday. In no time I'm there. Since they were busy doing their own business already, I took some sweet time to spent my late-lunch at greyhound cafe. It's been a long while since the last time I patronized here. Wanted to try some of the food in the special "BKK-OSLO-BKK" menu but it was not there anymore. So back to basic.. Ordered the garlic and bacon fried rice that comes with a soup, and a glass of ice blended Thai milk tea. Such a simple pleasuring meal on a warm Sunday.
Cooling ice blended Thai milk tea..
Garlic & bacon fried rice. Lot's of garlic, for true garlic lover only.
When eating alone...
Always enjoy dining at this cozy cafe.
A Fishy Dinner
I took the chance to bring Bill & Kate to one of BKK's chickiest restaurant located in the alleys of Sukhumvit road during their stay in BKK. Here we are at Fat Fish. At a glance, this little french bistro around the corner of a junction added a lit of light that brightens up the dull corner. It was a rainy night and this would be the perfect place for our dinner. Rain drops drizzles on the glass panel adds up the moods to what seemingly as a romantic dinner (for Bill & Kate) and the brick wall generates a well amount of warm and cozy atmosphere to this restaurant.
Enough of how the place sets the mood for the night. On the contrary, the food is decently nice. They have some red meat main courses on the menu but the name of the restaurant says it all and of course we are ordering the fish dish.
Complimentary... home baked breads with butter, olive oil and tuna spread.
Soup of the day... Tomatoes with cream.
NZ mussels baked with cheese and bacon crisp. It has a very strong oceanic taste despite all that cheese.
My starter.. Prawns ravioli in creame. Very good and they are quite generous with the scallops. Can you see it?
My main... Always love grilled salmon but make sure it is medium cooked. Salmon doesn't taste good if it is fully cooked.
Kate's black cod as main.
Bill's Red Garoupa as main.
Haha... all time favorite dessert. Chocolate fondant with vanilla ice cream.
Bread pudding... I like the sweetness but the texture is a bit too soft.
The dinner was great, we are happy and satisfied with the food we had. The rain just wouldn't stop so we took our own sweet time hanging there until the restaurant closes. With Bill around, photo whoring is unavoidable.
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